MY HUSBAND AND I WERE CELEBRATING our 41st wedding anniversary the other day. We were having a meal in a restaurant, and unusually, it was just us and our grown son and daughter. It seemed kind of odd; none of the many other assorted relatives and in-laws were present for once. It was just the…
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SOME THINGS just drive me to drinking and no, it ain’t my hot… rod… Lincoln. It’s not even the exes that pass on by in my life. it’s the unquenchable thirst for revenge, at all cost that is so often co-created when married couples part. “Heav’n has no rage, like love to hatred turn’d, nor…
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“I HATE YOU!” spits out Kathy, my mate, Blue Eyes’s teenage daughter, she has just involuntarily moved in with us. These are the first words she’s uttered to me in months and are in response to my attempt at re-opening communication lines. It’s a start, I think to myself and the venomous barrage of false…
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“ARGH, why didn’t you break up with your boyfriend before we went away!? We could’ve… you know… I still lust for you.” Lexie, a newly divorced girlfriend indignantly recites this email snippet to me during an emergency phone pow-wow. It is the juicy part of correspondence just in from Tim, her handsome, charming male friend of…
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