SO NOW that you know it’s maybe not such a good idea to engage in bareback sex (without a condom) when you’re playing the dating game and you know to take a close look at your lover’s twig and berries before you get to the point of no return… Let’s take a look at what, exactly you need to look for during ‘The Inspection’.

Yes, it’s a wonderful feeling to go at with reckless abandon with your latest date but who wants to pay the price? And I’m not just talking about the dinner tab.
Those days are over, baby.
It’s time to take matters in your own hands and change the game. Play a little with ‘The Inspection’, who knows what fantasy you could enact with your lover while you take a peek. Any interest in his family jewels is sure to get a rise out of him so go for it, girl!
Playing is a good thing, never stop.
In this video, gynecologist, Dr Wilf Steinberg answers the burning question – ‘What the heck does a Sexually Transmitted Disease look like?
If you can even see it.
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Love the topics youre covering Esmee… really important yet ones we often avoid.
Wonderful you are enjoying the safe sex topic, Shari. The message is crucial and noticing that so many avoid this topic tells me just how important it is.
I really appreciate that you understand this, thank you!
I love all the cool photos you use, so fun to see, it’s kind of like reading a magazine article!
Happy to admit that it’s the pictures I look at first when I read a magazine so the mix of pics and words in my posts just seems natural. Most of the photos I’ve taken myself, it’s so much fun to share them.
Visuals rock!
Wonderful you do this, Esmée. It is so important and actually nobody somehow dares talk about it openly and clearly. Good for my kids. Kiss, E.
Now that’s inspiring that you are willing to share this great information with you kids! Knowing that my posts could help them to make wise, healthy choices and safeguard them… Thank you for making my day, Edouard and thank you for sharing your thoughts.